Pleasure at The Lola

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An ongoing in-person pleasure laboratory for women

The thing is...
WE ARE GLORIOUS.

Long before I began working explicitly with trauma, I learned through my sensuality training that pleasure is the healing force of the universe: the natural impulse toward wholeness, the feeling tone of aliveness itself.

In Inquiry Meditation, we experience direct healing of even our most profound pain, from Session #1, using Deep Pleasure principles.

Here, via Pleasure at The Lola (PATL), we turn toward pleasure in its most luscious expression: High Pleasure.

For when we as women engage pleasure in a gently sensual way, it doesn’t just feel good: it awakens healing, empowerment, and aliveness in us at every level.

Upcoming Pleasure Gatherings

March 18, Standalone PATL Salon:

1:30–3:00 PM

Topic: Our Pleasure Is Our Brilliance! (And why the erotic is the very source of our wellbeing)

Location:
The Lola Women’s Co-Working Space
621 North Avenue NE D-100
Atlanta, GA 30308

Add to your calendar: [Google Calendar]

No registration needed — just come. Open to Lola members and their guests, and guests of Leslie.

Dear Woman...

Do you regularly and routinely experience yourself as...

Luminous? (Yes, LUMINOUS!)
Alive?
Grounded?
Radiant?
Lit up from the inside out?

If it's been too long (or never): You are not alone!

Women are, on the whole, in a severe pleasure deficit–and yep, pleasure is indeed a nutrient vital to our wellbeing–perhaps the most vital nutrient of all!

A woman well-resourced in her pleasure--a woman who can access good feeling in her body--is a woman steeped in her own vitality, vibrance, and power.

Pleasure at The Lola is an invitation to begin replenishing that resource — gently, joyfully, and in great company.

What We Do When We Gather

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Each gathering includes:

• Time to arrive and land in your body (Chocolate often is involved!)
• A short grounding reading (often from Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer, alongside poetry, film, interviews, and other sources that reconnect woman and pleasure)
• Lively, honest dialogue
• Gentle, powerful, and FUN pleasure practice
• Space to digest what’s been stirred

Not only do we talk about pleasure.

We practice together. (Check out previous PATL topics here!)

What happens as a result?

Momentum happens. Glory happens. Power happens. Fun happens.

So:

Move that meeting. Leave work early. Let this be a different kind of "you" time.

March 18 Standalone PATL Salon Topic: Our Pleasure Is Our Brilliance! (And why the erotic is the very source of our wellbeing)

Add to your calendar: [Google Calendar]

No registration needed. Come thru!

Other Upcoming Events

I host special ticketed gatherings and courses that expand on my Gospel of Pleasure work.

My next gathering will be on March 25, 2026: High & Deep, Holy & Hot: Pleasure, Trauma, and Orgasm as a Direct Path to Glory

→ See more about this and other upcoming events here.

A Note About Reciprocity

Pleasure at The Lola is part of my commitment to making pleasure accessible.

This space is free because I believe women deserve places to gather, feel, explore, and come alive — regardless of where they are financially.

Because of that, we build it together.

From time to time, I’ll ask if you’re open to sharing a short reflection — written, audio, or a quick video — about your experience here.

Not polished. Not promotional. Just real.

These reflections help other women find their way into pleasure.

They also support the growth of my broader paid programming — which makes it possible for me to continue offering spaces like this one.

Pleasure at The Lola is not a funnel to get women to my paid programming.

If you later feel drawn to work with me more deeply, beautiful!

PATL, though, stands on its own.

And so, if you come and receive here, I'll ask you to help the field expand in some small way.

That’s how we build something sustainable.

And that is how pleasure can becomes the accesssible resource it is, for more and more of us.

Pleasure at The Lola FAQ's

If you do trauma work, why do you also host meetings about pleasure?

Great question! I call my work The Gospel of Pleasure because pleasure--what I define as good feeling in the body--heals at all levels.

In the trauma work I do via Inquiry Meditation, pleasure takes the form of compassion, interest, and kindness toward our pain.

In terms of women's vitality, pleasure takes the form of studying and practicing what lights us up--and it can change so much for us.

The effect is amplified when we practice together!

How "hands-on" is this series?

All practices are conversation- and inquiry-based. Participation is always at your own pace — gently, gently. There is no physical touch or explicit sexual practice.

I carry sexual trauma. Is this space for me?
Many women do. Everything here is designed to be trauma-informed, spacious, and choice-filled. You are welcome exactly as you are.

Why in person?
Because there’s nothing like being in the physical presence of other women who are choosing to enlarge themselves. Pleasure is synergistic. Come see.i

Do I need the book we'll be reading from?

Not necessary! The reading will be provided.

Do I have to dress up?
Nope! Come as you are.

Can nonbinary people and transgender women attend?
Fuck yes.

Can I see previous themes and topics covered in PATL?

Yes! Click here.